Don’t Live For Others’ Expectations

“We played the flute for you, and you did not dance; we sang a dirge, and you did not mourn.” (Matthew 11:17)

You’ll never please everybody. You can run yourself ragged and never live up to everyone’s expectations.  Jesus realized this, and it is reflected in His statements in Matthew 11:16-19.  In the previous verses Jesus had been speaking about John the Baptist, who had sent a question to Him.  Jesus had told His listeners that John was greatest among those who had been born of women.  John evidently had not lived up to some people’s expectations of who he was supposed to be. But, Jesus indicated, living up to other people’s expectations is not what our life is really about. Continue reading

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Your Two Key Relationships (Psalm 16:2-3 sermon)

One of the things that makes getting around relatively easy in Oklahoma is that the whole state is basically divided into 4 quadrants by I-35 which runs north & south, and I-40, which runs east & west. These 2 great highways serve as landmarks to guide you, so you can tell someone, “We live just south of I-40” and so on. (Now, as an aside, I will say that it is not this way here in Morganton. Cheryl & I are used to getting our directions based off of the interstate, but y’all don’t! In trying to find some different homes or businesses, we will ask: “Is it north or south of I-40?” — and we just get a blank stare! No one knows! Then the next question we typically get is something like: “Do you know where the old Wal-Mart was?” 🙂 (Now I finally did run into someone the other day who said that you can navigate your way around Morganton in a similar way using a couple of our main highways — but that was the first such person I have run across yet!)

But just as those two key highways divide the state of Oklahoma, or even Morganton, so there are two key relationships in every person’s life, around which their whole lives are organized. We find those relationships delineated in several places in scripture; one of them is Psalm 16:2-3, where David writes:

“I said to the LORD, ‘You are my Lord; I have no good besides You.’
As for the saints who are in the earth, they are the majestic ones in whom is all my delight.”

Here in these second and third verses of Psalm 16 we find the two basic relationships around which every human life is organized: your relationship with God, and your relationship with other people. Let’s look at what these verses teach us about the importance of each of these in our lives today: Continue reading

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Book Review: “What Does The Bible Really Teach About Homosexuality?” by Kevin DeYoung

I have finished reading a number of books in recent months, but perhaps none more image pertinent to our times than this one. There is hardly a person these days whose life has not been touched in some way by the issue of homosexuality: whether it involves a friend, family member, church issue, or even a personal struggle. Emotions can run high when the issue is discussed, but for the committed Christian, one question should matter above all: What does the Bible say about this?

This is the question Kevin DeYoung answers in his book, aptly entitled, What Does The Bible Really Teach About Homosexuality? Continue reading

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Comfort For The Doubter

“Are You the coming one, or shall we look for someone else?” (Matthew 11:3)

These words were spoken by John the Baptist, who had been imprisoned by Herod.  And they should comfort any of us who have ever had doubts about our faith. Continue reading

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It’s A Lot About Relationships

“Now the names of the twelve apostles are these: Simon, who is called Peter, and Andrew his brother; and James the son of Zebedee, and John his brother” (Matthew 10:2)

Among the items of note in the list of the twelve apostles Jesus called in Matthew 10 is a pair of words: “his brother … his brother …”.  Surely it is no accident that there are two pairs of brothers here.  That tells us something important about the way the gospel spreads, and the way we should approach evangelistic ministry. Continue reading

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When The Need Is Great: Pray!

“Then He said to His disciples, ‘The harvest is plentiful, but the workers are few. Therefore beseech the Lord of the harvest to send out workers into His harvest.” (Matthew 9:37-38)

Jesus’ response to the overwhelming need of the multitude that He and His disciples encountered in Matthew 9 is instructive: Continue reading

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“Take Courage” In That Long-Unanswered Prayer

“And a woman who had been suffering from a hemorrhage for twelve years, came up behind Him and touched the fringe of His cloak” (Matthew 9:20)

It should be encouraging for some of us to ponder anew the circumstances of what is to many a familiar story. This woman had suffered with a hemorrhage “for twelve years.” This was a LONG-term problem that she had. Undoubtedly she had prayed and asked God to take it away, possibly numerous times — with no answer.

This went on not just for a year — which can seem like an eternity when one is ill — then five years, then TEN, and then “twelve years.” Let that sink in for a bit. It must have seemed to her at times as if this prayer would never be answered. But, as we see here, it was!  She touched the fringe of Jesus’ garment; He said to her “Your faith has made you well”; and she was indeed healed — after all of those twelve, long, years!

This story is a reminder to us that God does answer prayers that we have prayed for a long time with no immediate answer.  In fact, I have personally encountered a couple of such answers in recent days:

— The other morning on Facebook, an Indian pastor friend of mine, Ravi Sharma, shared that  he led the wife of another Pastor to faith Christ. Pastor Paul had been praying for his wife’s salvation for SIXTEEN years! 

— While attending the Southern Baptist Convention, I had the opportunity to visit with a Christian brother who serves in a ministry, who had himself rebelled against God and his parents for over 30 years, before coming back to Him in answer to their prayers.  


The bottom line for us?  God does hear and answer long-term prayer requests. Jesus told the woman here in Matthew 9, “Take courage.” (:22)  That may be His word for you today regarding a certain prayer request on your heart. Even if you have been praying for 10, 20, or 30 years, don’t lose heart. Don’t just mumble through “rote” prayers. “Take courage” and persevere fervently in your intercession — your prayer could very well be the next one God answers!  

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Have You Learned Compassion?

“But go and learn what this means: ‘I desire compassion and not sacrifice.'” (Matthew 9:13)

If Jesus told you to go and learn something, don’t you think it would be important to do so?  Here Jesus tells a group of Pharisees who were criticizing Him for “eating with … sinners” (:11) that He wants to us learn to have COMPASSION, not condemnation towards those who sin. Continue reading

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Glorify God

“But when the crowds saw this, they were awestruck, and glorified God, who had given such authority to men.” (Matthew 9:8)

This verse describes the response of the people to Jesus’ raising up of the paralzyed man who was brought to Him. It also serves as a good model for us.  This is the proper response whenever we see people do great things: we should give glory to GOD, not the people involved, for God gives all men the ability to do what they do. Continue reading

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Which IS easier?

“Which is easier, to say, ‘Your sins are forgiven,’ or to say, ‘Get up and walk’?” (Matthew 9:5)

This sentence is full of the searching wisdom of Jesus, and may not be what it appears at first blush. Which IS easier, to say that a person’s sins are forgiven, or to make them rise and walk?  There are a couple of layers of truth here: Continue reading

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