Why Do YOU Applaud?

     After Louisiana College graduation this morning, my mom, who had driven down from Oklahoma to see our daughter Libby and our daughter-in-law Ashley graduate, asked: “Who was that man who so enthusiastically led the opening hymn at graduation?”
     I said, “That was Fred Guilbert, the dean of the music department, why?”
     Mom: “I’ve just never seen the audience applaud the end of an opening hymn like that.”
     Me: “Well, Continue reading

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This Week In Paradise (2nd Edition)

Last week I gave you an intimate look at quirky life inside the pastor’s home.  It seemed to be well received (who doesn’t like the inside scoop?), so I decided to write a “second edition” of ordinary events at the preacher’s house this past week …

 Just Helping Out

Cheryl took Michael out Monday to run some errands, most importantly getting him something nice to wear to Libby’s college graduation this Saturday.  While she was out, she called and asked (I should emphasize that!) if she could buy a second rocking chair for our front porch – they were on sale at Stine.  It was either a really good time to call, or a really bad time, because in my current state I didn’t care; I said “sure”.  Later she told me that while she was loading the rocker into her car, one of our church members was driving by and kindly asked if she needed help with the chair.  Cheryl told him: “I am trying to keep Shawn’s blood pressure up by going out and spending all his money!” 😉 Continue reading

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Thursday Hospital Funnies

Every cloud has its silver lining — or its funny moments!  Thursday I had to go back to Memorial Hospital for some more tests.  First was a fasting blood test, earlier in the morning, which consisted of two parts, separated by about an hour; then an echocardiogram later, so we would be at the hospital facilities much of the day.  But there were still “those moments” …

After my first round of blood was drawn, I got an injection that they wanted to see how my body processed, so I had to wait for almost an hour before my next blood draw.  I do not feel well anyway, and then to be fasting several hours into the day, AND get a series of needle pricks – well that just added insult to injury.  I saw a little loveseat by an elevator near the lab area, and just collapsed into it.  There was not another seat nearby, so Cheryl sat in some chairs across the room from me.  Trying to cheer me up, she said to me, “What sounds good to eat when we get out of here?”  Well, I had to think about it for a while.  After a few minutes, I finally said, “You know what sounds good?”  Well, Cheryl didn’t hear me, so she didn’t look up or respond.  I looked up, and a man had just gotten off the elevator, and was looking right at me, thinking I had spoken to him.  He quickly tucked his iPad under his arm and hastily scurried out!  

 Speaking of hasty retreats: while at the hospital, Cheryl stepped into the restroom by the doctor’s office, stopped, and thought: “This is a weird kind of restroom they have here at the hospital …” — then figured out: it was the MEN’S room!  You can imagine how glad she was that is was empty!

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Why Then Am I This Way?

     My Bible reading this morning from Genesis 25 was very applicable to my own personal situation, and I wonder if it might be to yours as well.  The chapter says that after Isaac prayed for Rebekah, who had been unable to have children, she was finally with child.  But verse 22 says, “the children struggled together within her, and she said, ‘If it is so, why then am I this way?’  So she went to inquire of the Lord.”

This says something important about Rebekah.  I had never considered Rebekah to be a great woman of faith, but in this recent reading in Genesis, I have seen otherwise.  Can you imagine the faith it took for her to leave her home and go – sight unseen! – with Abraham’s servant to marry Isaac?  That was a step of faith like unto what Abraham himself took, when “he went out, not knowing where he was going” at God’s bidding.  Rebekah was a woman of like faith, and she demonstrated that further in this passage as well.  When she felt the children struggling within her during her pregnancy, she asked, “WHY then am I this way?”  In other words, she wanted to know the reason behind what was happening to her. Continue reading

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This Week In Paradise …

I know that some church members think that everything must be “perfect” at the pastor’s home (you know, just like his kids!) — that it is some kind of terrestrial paradise.  Others, I am sure, wonder “what really happens inside the preacher’s house?”  This blog post (and those which may or may not follow it) is dedicated to enlightening both sets of people. Continue reading

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Bonhoeffer on Your Daily Bible Reading

Last Thursday I shared some insights from Dietrich Bonhoeffer’s Life Together, for the National Day of Prayer.  The same book contain several helps for our daily time in God’s word.  In Life Together he uses the term “meditation,” but he is not referring to “transcendental meditation” or anything of that sort, but of daily personal meditation in the scriptures.  Here are some of his helpful insights: Continue reading

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Whate’er My God Ordains Is Right

The words of this old hymn are very pertinent for me right now – in a number of ways – and perhaps they may minister to you, too.  Samuel Rodigast (1649-1708), the son of a Lutheran minister in Germany, wrote this to comfort a sick friend.  It is the only hymn we know that he authored. 

Whate’er my God ordains is right,

His holy will abideth;

I will be still whate’er He doth,

And follow where He guideth.

He is my God,

Though dark my road,

He holds me that I shall not fall,

Wherefore to Him I leave it all. Continue reading

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Bonhoeffer on Prayer

As today is the National Day of Prayer, I wanted to share some observations on prayer from Dietrich Bonhoeffer’s Life Together. The book focuses on the importance of fellowship in the church, but includes some helpful observations on the practice of prayer as well: Continue reading

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“Orotund or Obfuscation?” How many of these 20 Dickens words do YOU Know?!

At 1083 pages, it took me more than a just few days to read Peter Ackroyd’s epic-length biography, Dickens.  Actually I would have completed it much more quickly had I not stopped to look up so many words!  Some I just wanted to make sure I knew the exact meaning of – but there were several words in Dickens which I am fairly sure I had NEVER laid eyes on before in my entire life!  In many portions of the book, I had to research words at the rate of about one per page.  About a third of the way through, just for fun, I began to highlight each word that I looked up.  Following are some of those.  How many could you precisely define – without looking?!  As Count Rugin in “The Princess Bride” exhorted Wesley: “This is for posterity, so be honest!” Continue reading

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Fleeting Laughter, Lasting Pain

Most of us have been guilty at some point of poking fun at someone without thinking of the pain it might be inflicting on them.  In Peter Ackroyd’s Dickens, he tells the story of John Coleman, who lived opposite the famous author.  He writes:

“Coleman always raised his hat when he saw the young novelist, but his civilities were not necessarily returned, and on one occasion, when Macready [George, an actor friend of Dickens] was leaving the house, the actor saw Coleman and whispered something to Dickens.  ‘They both laughed as they drove off, little dreaming of the pain their laughter left behind.’”

     We need to beware using other people’s appearance, mannerisms, or situation as the basis for our jokes — whether a passing stranger, a work or school associate, or especially a family member.   To us it might be nothing more than the “light entertainment” of a passing moment – but for them it may be a wrenching hurt that leaves a lasting scar.  (James 3:5-6, Proverbs 12:18)

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